Harry and Meghan have finally understood that they need a new approach, or so it seems. Whatever they were doing before was abysmal, and there is no getting around that. They were so thin-skinned that they allowed every last thing anyone said to get to them, and then they would react. Usually poorly. But look at what we have here. A new chapter or a temporary moment of clarity? Did something finally get through to them? Only time will tell, but they appear to be trying to turn things around and recoup some of the squandered goodwill they took for granted.  The Sussexes were spotted at a bar in Montecito the other night , Laker's game, (thanks for the catch)looking cozy and happily together. "Spotted". Okay, sure, let us just say no one recognized them, and they didn't have a decent photographer there to snap the moment, and they had absolutely no idea that their picture was being taken. We couldn't miss them sitting under suspiciously good lighting, which could be...